I know both are wrong, but why do people talk about the woman so bad as if she is the one that is making him cheat with her. I have saw with my own eyes plenty of married men approaching women persuading them and some married men do not even wear their ring. My opinion, no matter how they met or who approached who, if he cares, love, respect his wife and marriage vows he wouldn't allow it. So again, why is the woman always the blame?
no the wife isn't jealous in fact many times the wife is prettier, my husband cheated with a 3rd world poverty stricken whore, she would charge him money yet claimed she is no whore.
he told me he couldnt stand her skin color or her body, a filipina with no womanly curves built like a boy. but she would do anything kinky and continued to flatter him with compliments so he would keep the money flowing,, she even emailed him her bank acct info so he could deposit money.
no. i have our son, our paid off home, my bank acct and my Cadillac, she lives in a run down apt. wears $3. capri pants and flipflops he said, EVERYDAY. she admitted to sleeping with lots of guys, i am not jealous of that. at 38 she has still never been proposed to.
i am disappointed in him and repulsed he could even touch that. i could almost see him being tempted by some beautiful blonde bombshell, but no girl who resembles a chimpanwhen a man is cheatingzee with a flat nose.
as for her all i feel is disgust, because she knew he was married, she gave him an ultimatum until 2010 to divorce me--lol --well 2010 came and went and no divorce, these women have no clout, no power, no life really, except to get their knees in front of a man hoping he'll leave his wife,
well, if the wife knows about this cheating she should not blame the other woman.
your husband at fault he can always turn her down and tell the woman he respect his wife and would never dream of cheating you.
if he wanted to cheat a decent man will tell his wife of his plans to cheat and they should slip up for a while, and then decide what to do in the future with this marriage you both share together.
some women get hurt by their mates and want to hurt back by being with a married man these kind of women end up a lonely person in the future.
if the woman knows the man is married then id put blame on her too cuz she knew & should of known better not to do it with a married man even if he did approach her first but me personally i would hate the other woman because of fact she had what was pose to only be mine, if you know what i mean & jealousy cuz would make me feel like shitthink why her, what's wrong with me..god I hope I never hav 2 go thru that I love my hubby so much
I get where you are coming from. In my owhen a man is cheatingpinion if the woman knows that the man is married and yet continues to go through with everything then she (yes and the man) are to blame. The wife will always call the women names and look down on her because she is hurt and lashes out. The man though is just as bad I agree..if not ALOT worse seeing as he should have known better also.
IN my opinion it takes two to tango, to play the game of cheating a real man would walk away from temptation.If he really loves his wife,gf then he could walk away without looking back and be there for her and only her ,In my opinion.
You are right of course. Even though the cheating husband is more to blame, because he broke vows, not the other woman. I think people, especially women blame the other woman because they think men are too weak to resist women. It is an unfair double standard.
Cant answer "why" but have seen it myself. Know several female friends that got cheated on and they just hate the "other woman" when like you say it doent matter who approached who--it takes two. Just the way it is.
Sorry, when it comes to my viewpoint, i blame you both. But if it does come off that your getting it more then he is or vice verse, then your getting everything you asked for.
The other woman had the option to say no.
She isnt it take two to tango!
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